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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Sounds like your plans include suffering in silence until kids are off to college. Best of luck! [/quote] OP here. I'm a stubborn as f**k person so it's pretty much impossible for me to be quiet about all my gripes. But that is basically the advice I got on this thread so I will have to do my d@mndest to figure out how to cope. Feels like I'm a little premature on a mid-life crisis. My current way to cope has been completely upending my wardrobe (even though I never actually had one before) and buying colorful shirts, sweatshirts, and leggings. I was a person who actively avoided color clothes since adolescence. So someone else mentioned I should focus on myself, and I plan to do that. New clothes to start. Wanna get some more ear piercings (only have one on each lobe) and maybe finally muster up enough courage to get a few small/medium size tattoos. I plan to have my hair cut and dyed (nothing crazy) once my hair settles down and stops falling out from the postpartum hormones.[/quote] That is actually NOT the advice you have gotten on this thread, it's just the advice you listened to because it suits your own narrative. That way you can say you stayed for the children and you suffered for their sakes and poor poor you that your husband made you have three kids and won't let you work (lady, it's 2025) and everyone will feel so sorry for you. Enjoy, I guess?[/quote]
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