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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know I will get slammed, but most of these marriages are dead and transactional by that point anyway. It’s rarely a shock to anyone, and in retrospect, often a blessing.[/quote]
Marriage shouldn’t stop a father from being a father. If his marriage dissolves he’s no longer a husband, but he’s still a father. That isn’t an excuse for dead beats. [/quote]

Some moms want to cover up their affair and play happy family with the ap.  Dad’s role is only money and she refuses contact and alienates the kids.  It goes both ways.  [/quote]
Nope. You can’t alienate the kids if you’re an involved caring parent to begin with. Stop making excuses for lazy men who refuse to parent.[/quote]

Correct. The people claiming "alienation" aren't doing their part to be actively involved in a healthy way. They either don't show up at all, or spend whatever parenting time they have belittling and blaming the parent with primary custody. Kids aren't stupid. They know who shows up for them and who makes excuses.[/quote]

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