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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Attractive and fit
Well educated and financially independent
Good sense of humor
Little if any emotional baggage
Low maintenance and not needy
Empty nester
Enjoys sex and initiates[/quote]

Interesting and good to know that older men are not looking to support a woman financially. [/quote]

Yep, that basically describes that men want to invest little  mental and financial effort . Just put out and initiate and don’t complain when he gives nothing for V day. 
I must say, I would pass even if he’s hot. Total waste of my time, I’ll rather focus on friends, career and my kids. [/quote]

I would argue the complete opposite.  I know a lot of middle aged single dudes (my divorced brother’s friends).

Most of them prefer to pay for stuff because it gets them off the hook for anything else (like being a good boyfriend).  They churn through pretty younger women and act like big swinging d**ks because they pick up the bar tab.

I’d prefer to pay my own way - if a guy isn’t paying my way he better show up in some other way, like being interesting and interested in me, planning good dates when it’s his turn, being thoughtful toward me (coffee in bed is my love language 😂).  I probably get fewer second dates because I have standards, but I have found a few that have been worth keeping around.[/quote]

You are both in agreement and saying that same thing.

The 50s+ men don’t want to be thoughtful or mindful or considerate towards their date.

They are ok paying and being transactional that way, but don’t expect a close relationship since they have no emotions or empathy or understanding to give. [/quote]

what are you talking about? Some men are like that. Others are not. Jesus, the inability of women on this board to understand nuances and probabilities probably goes a long way toward explaining why they're so bitter.[/quote]

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