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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. Can you pay for those so-called high maintenance things?

2. Can you take care of all of your needs, even if you hire out (cooking, cleaning)?

3. Are you polite to people who wait on you or otherwise don’t have power over you?

If you answered yes to all three, you are fine. And if any guy gives you a hard time, ask him to explain the reason. If the reason is dumb, give him a miss.[/quote]

1. Yes.

2. Yes

3. Yes. I am from the midwest and extremely nice. I’m kind to everyone and also tip well. Even sucky service gets pleasantry and a 10% tip. I would never be rude to anyone. I’m not above anyone either. [/quote]

You are fine. You live an expensive lifestyle. That is not the same as being high maintenance. 
You can afford that expensive lifestyle and that's ok.
Find a man who can afford the same expensive lifestyle and you'll be fine. 
You sound like a nice woman. I would date you.

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This is all the correct answer, OP. (I’m a woman, so can’t answer directly for men, but I’m much older than you and have known a lot of people in a lot of different kinds of relationships. You sounds like a nice person, flexible when necessary, who works a lot and in exchange wants some luxury, relaxation, and adventure in your rare time off. Find a partner who fits with that approach — ie, not a mosey homebody — and you two can happily try new restaurants together for decades to come.)[/quote]

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