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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have a husband problem, not a work problem. You could easily figure this out with his involvement.[/quote] She has both. Even if her DH was a fully present and active parents (in the live software [i]all[/i] his children, not just the NT ones), a 3+hour commute 3 days a week is still insane.[/quote] I dont think it's that insane. It's not my choice but it definitely happens and people make it work.[/quote] DP but pretending a 90 minute commute as the default caregiver with three young kids is not absolutely insane is gaslighting to the extreme. [/quote] She has the luxury to just quit. Grandparents will pay for college and I bet they help with other stuff. She has plenty of $$$. And we all have preferences about number of kids and where we live. She chose to have three kids and chose to live where she wanted. She probably has low housing costs too. Just quit OP so someone who actually could use the job can take it. [/quote]
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