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[quote=Anonymous]I have spent up to 2k on art without asking dh. He really doesn’t spend much aside from always treating people whenever we go out even if we are with friends who have plenty and normally you split it. But he has had a couple fender benders that he was embarrassed about and paid a couple grand to fix.

Our biggest financial fight was over buying the house we are in. I felt it was too expensive given all the work I suspected it would need (had to guess because this was the waive inspection market in 2021); he thought it would be fine. Well, in 4 years we have had to replace all the siding; roof; remediate and waterproof basement; redo kitchen (cabinets from the 80s fell off the wall our first week) ; rip out plumbing in one bathroom; out in multiple French drains due to water pooling and flooding and will be redoing our driveway soon as the water issues causing cracking and other issues. Oh and I thought having a pool would be an expensive liability that we would t use much and I was right. We are probably going to sell in next 2-3 years anyway, or sooner if he loses his job (fed). [/quote]

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