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[quote=Anonymous]When I was engaged, my husband made a lot more money and was further ahead in his career. But times quickly changed and I have been the primary breadwinner (and sometimes only) for the vast majority of the last 25 years. It has definitely affected my views - I believe both members of the couple need to keep the employment, household, and kid-rearing skills in best shape because contribution can change over time. I suppose, like others, I would be bothered that your BF didn’t even engage in the thought exercise with you on how you could make this opportunity work. Maybe you’ll decide it’s not worth it. But life is long and he needs to show at least a little mental flexibility in the easiest part of a relationship.[/quote]
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