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[quote=Anonymous]He doesn't want to marry.
If he was as serious about the marriage and family thing he would have done it by now.

He's looking for a way out of your relationship and a way to blame you.

You should take more how his response was not one of excitement for you or finding a way to work together for it to work. He essentially shit the bed and left you to clean up.

Know that even if you decide to stay this will be the nature of your relationship going forward.

And I know anecdotes aren't everything but I have seen this  scenario play out  several times including my own. I have scene a friend turn down and offer for a guy only for them never to get married or end up miserably married because the guy was always shitting the bed and never willing to compromise or put her first.  I have had a friend decide to go for the job and the guy break up with her and my friend was so worried she'd never find someone else like him only to meet her DH in the new location and he is so much better than her ex.  And then my own DH and I we were long distance for 2 years much further than 3
5 hr plane ride and when I told him about the offer his response  was to start googling the most direct flights wouldn't even let me say I'd turn it down because it was a dream for me. [/quote]

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