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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So he's an overgrown boy with no sense of responsibility and a thinning sense of basic decency? Nah, this shit isn't cute after, like, 25, tops.

If you don't have kids, don't have kids. He's still very much a child himself. If you do, yikes. Honestly? I'd divorce him. Ignore the nutters who will say it's your fault for being a "wallflower" or whatever other nonsense. Needing to pass out on someone else's couch is a college thing. If you're still doing that as an adult, more than maybe once every 3-4 years, you either have a substance use problem or just feel a sense of entitlement that doesn't fit with being a partner. Not a good look either way.

He can go out for his birthday, get white boy wasted and crash with his bestie (and that way, it's not a surprise to you). Anything more than that is indulgent to the point of ridiculousness, and if he's not willing to dial it back, well, there's the problem.[/quote]

People should marry someone who agrees on the exact number of times one may get "white boy wasted" per year, and the appropriate occasions for doing so, while remaining short of ridiculousness.  Your number is one, on a birthday. OPs seems to be a couple times a year. For others it will be zero. [/quote]

Yeah it’s zero here. No way I’m accepting my spouse getting wasted once a year, let alone passing out somewhere randomly and thinking I should be fine with it. That wasn’t cute at 21 and certainly isn’t cute a decade later.[/quote]

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