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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, lots of good advice here (and some not so helpful). We did DBT and it was helpful in so many ways. Her finding her strategies and the dialectical thinking “I can both need to go to Dr and Mom can’t do it right now” she develops will help. It does take time. Other than that, Ross Greene and the Plan B method are excellent. It gives them a sense of control while working in the confines of what works you. And other than that, I’d focus on connection as much as possible. It’s hard at this age, but it’s important that she feels deeply loved by you despite the behaviors. I personally think the reason these things go in waves (at least for our son) is that something started for whatever reason, but often tied to other stressful events in his life, and his own shame and disconnection from us puts him in a vulnerable state. So “fill the bucket” as much as possible I’m sure it’s exhausting. Hang in there[/quote]
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