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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Troll or not, this shit happens to people and is worthy of discussion.

I know a couple where the wife cheated about year twenty to twenty five of their marriage, the kids were little.  He discovered it, she ended it, they just celebrated 50 years together.

Everything doesn't happen the way many of you are so sure it does.  Some men do forgive and not want to end their marriages.  Some women who cheat really do love their husbands and family despite their reasons for cheating.  Not all cheaters of either gender are selfish narcissistic a$$holes as many of you seem to think.

The reason there are so many black and white answers here is because it makes people scared to think this could happen to them and they'd like to think there is a formula that applies to every situation where they had no role in the situation other than as victim.

I think it's valuable for OP and anyone else dealing with cheating to see many different perspectives so maybe stop attacking those who don't agree with you and let the cheated on person take what speaks to them and get through their situation the best they can under their individual and unique circumstances.[/quote]

The cheater with a heart of gold!  Such a sweet story![/quote]

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