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[quote=Anonymous]Nobody does first look with a KID! Ugh! That gives me such bad vibes. Pre ask the kid if he would be interested in participating in the wedding. Include both of the other things your sister wants, plus passing out programs (check with sister prior) or just supporting her from pews. He chooses. You inform your sister that you consulted kid and he’s offered to help in this specific way. You do not allow your sister to put your son in that position if he’s uncomfortable with it. An eight year old might love to walk his auntie down the aisle, but your son is 12. The moment has likely passed. You need to guard his right to be an awkward teen and blend into the background if he so chooses. And in the kindest voice I can manage, before you get married, you desperately need to go to some form of therapy. The fact that you’re considering to get your son stands in for your dad is worth discussing with a therapist.[/quote]
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