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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here with an update. He came back to WhatsApp on my birthday, 8 days after he reached out to me and received my response. He sent 6 short messages, the first being "happy birthday" and the last "when do you return?" Then he sent 2 more messages a day later, and I haven't heard from him since Friday when I asked about his plans for the holiday weekend. I so don't understand our relationship. [/quote]

OMG. Let me make this super easy for you:

A lot of men just want entertainment whenever they feel like it. They don't like you, they don't want a relationship, it is literally just a way to pass the time when they're lonely and they like the ego boost of "I can text her and she responds immediately".

When you're young (which I'm guessing you are), the challenge of a man like that is enticing. It makes you feel special. "He doesn't like anybody else but he picked me! I am the chosen one!" No, you are not. He is just a guy who is maybe depressed, doesn't have the capability to put effort into a relationship, and wants attention on his terms. It's "wyd?" but without the sex.

Try an experiment. Stop replying to him for a few months and see what happens. He's not suddenly going to ride in on a white horse and proclaim his love for you. He'll move on to the next sucker.[/quote]

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