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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Usually if they have the social cluelessness to ask for something inappropriate, you mustn't feel bad saying no, and ignoring all of their emotions after that.

And keep in mind that autistic people often don't have a good sense of what's socially appropriate or not. My husband is the sort who asks. Usually he doesn't mind when people say no. He also doesn't understand that people might be uncomfortable at saying no, because in their shoes he wouldn't mind declining.

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This is someone who is at ease socially (I am not) and who is nervous about this one thing. I am equally nervous but made sure I had a plan I could be ok with for this thing. Their favor involves a lot of new anxiety for me.[/quote]

Are you in therapy? I'm asking that kindly, by the way, I feel for the bind you're in. But you shouldn't let someone else's failure to plan and their anxiety cause anxiety in you. Your other option is to do the thing. Which one will cause you less stress? Doing it or not doing it and dealing with the repercussions? [/quote]

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