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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve always envisioned my life and had certain standards for it. I do struggle with feeling like things need to be a certain way and perfect. I like things to be just right. Example: I will make the same recipe many times until I perfect it. This happened for our wedding, home, and now our baby. I had to have prefect everything for this baby. [b]My birth plan is not what I wanted and I’m crushed and in a bad funk. [/b]DH kindly sat me down and shared his feelings and worries over my perfection. He feels my feelings of perfection will derail my happiness. He doesn’t like how rigid I am and wants me to loosen up. I’m not sure how to achieve that or why I’m like this. He married me knowing how I am. He doesn’t get to change me. [/quote]

Take it from someone who almost died during pregnancy - your birth plan should be for you to come through it healthy, and with a healthy baby.[/quote]
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Also I had a friend like you, with a very detailed “natural” birth plan for both her kids and due to circumstances had to have two C-sections instead. She started hating her body, thinking of herself as less of a woman and a mom, and ended up deeply depressed and then divorced.[/quote]

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