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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Sounds like what he shared is valid Work on it - seek therapy. Will say .. now that you’re a parent.. You’re going to be faced with plenty of non perfect situations you absolutely can’t control. Saddle up. [/quote] I’m not a parent yet. I’m due next month. I really wanted a vaginal birth but I’m crushed now that we will have a scheduled c-section. I really wanted to avoid a c-section unless it was an emergency. I know I’m hard to handle and like things the way I do. I think my issues stem from growing up in a dysfunction home with a very critical mom and stepdad who had no issues talking about people ( including me) if I was single for too long, gained weight, not making enough money, etc.[/quote] You very, very, very much need to be in therapy and possibly be medicated. Like now. I am not kidding. Post-partum is going to be very rough for you otherwise. Make your appointments now so you can meet your therapist before you give birth and see what the options are for phone or virtual appointments, although you should be able to get up and go in person in not too long (I had a c-section with twins). [/quote]
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