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[quote=Anonymous]NP. My perfectionism heavily focuses on avoiding errors or mistakes — if something goes wrong despite my doing my best, I’m fine. I can roll with unexpected catastrophe. (Kid pukes and I have to rearrange our lives? Fine!) But if I mess up, or if future plans change such that I can no longer envision everything I’m going to do to avoid mistakes, I get very anxious and upset. I hate travel for this reason, which makes it no fun for my family to go on trips with me. I find unscheduled stretches of time stressful. I can’t just sit down and BE because I have a constant stream of things I feel like I need to worry about. It’s awful. I’m getting medicated. [/quote]
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