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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are you going to do when your kid isn't perfect?   When your kid doesn't behave exactly how you want?   When they aren't how you want them to be?   [/quote]

I’m fine with that. My child doesn’t go be perfect. I don’t expect people to be perfect. I just like things like cooking, a party I throw, my home, etc., to be perfect. I want to have the most perfect welcome home for our baby.
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Seems unlikely. Most people with perfectionist tendencies extend it to their children. [/quote]

This. I'm the PP with a mom like OP.   My mom would never have said she expected us to be perfect.  But her desire for control and perfection in all other situations in life is what ruined our relationship with her.  And what contributed to my brother and mine own mental health struggles.   I get that OP doesn't see how things can go wrong now, I think that goes along with her need for control and perfection.  She doesn't see why it's bad.  But as someone who has lived it and as someone who has a mom who deeply regrets it, please, make changes now.  [/quote]

PP. This tracks though - OP, the perfectionist, thinks she will be perfect and not fall into the traps that felled other non-perfect people. [/quote]

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