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Reply to "Husband asked me to change my behavior "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are you going to do when your kid isn't perfect? When your kid doesn't behave exactly how you want? When they aren't how you want them to be? [/quote] I’m fine with that. My child doesn’t go be perfect. I don’t expect people to be perfect. I just like things like cooking, a party I throw, my home, etc., to be perfect. I want to have the most perfect welcome home for our baby. [/quote] Think hard about why you are trying to make the most perfect welcome for your baby. Who are you doing that for? The baby doesn’t need or care about coming home to a perfect welcome. The baby won’t remember any of it either. You are doing all of this for yourself not the baby or your husband. [b]Perfectionism is about making yourself happy not the people around you.[/b] [/quote] No, perfectionism is constant fearful fleeing from reality. It doesn't make anyone happy [/quote]
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