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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]hardline filters. No more or less than a 10 year age difference. College educated. No kids. Needed to respond within a day. Nothing weird in the chat. [b]I only would do a weekday drink after work or early coffee date or a walk for the first date. Nothing casual.[/b] [/quote]

You have a reasonable point that there are a lot of weirdos online, and you need to ruthlessly filter out people with incompatible age, education, location, and manners.

Attractive successful men are not waiting around to respond within 24 hours for the privilege of buying you a coffee.  Some single women treat men as commodities and confuse high quantity of messages with availability of high quality men.

One woman wanted an early drink, and she predictably showed up in work clothes.  I had anticipated this and excused myself one hour later for a second drink date with a woman 15 years younger (and took her home).  If the first woman had scheduled a 7:00 drink and dressed appropriately for a date then this would not have happened.  I preferred age-appropriate women with relationship potential.  But I started walking out on dates when the woman was very late, did not look like her pictures, or acted inappropriately.

Some women want a convenient coffee date to audition the man.  But it is a two-way audition, and you are already failing.  If a successful, fit man feels that you are scheduling him for convenience, if you are not dressed appropriately for a date, and if you are not hot and pleasant, then you are not getting a second date.  Enjoy your coffee and cats.[/quote]

You walked out on her because of work clothes. lol, no you just didn’t find her hot or whatever and you already had another date planned. Ridiculous, trying to blame it on the woman when the issue is you.[/quote]

That woman in work clothes is smart she avoided being used for a one night stand. Of a man likes you, he’ll see the curves regardless and will pop up back into your radar even after sex with other women [/quote]

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