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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It seems weird that a man is digging in about June vs September in Chicago for no particular reason at all. Most people grow up understanding that a wedding is a big deal in particular for brides. And so to be so confrontational and combative about his fiance's preferences - again, for no good reason - seems like a harbinger for a terrible marriage. Controlling. Whiny. Uncooperative. Angry. Who want's that in their life? And no matter what they choose, the day is already ruined because somebody won and somebody lost. Terrible way to start things. I don't think it's unreasonable to reconsider this relationship.[/quote] I wasn't aware these men existed. I honestly have never met a man who cared about the date, unless it was the Superbowl.[/quote] Over the years, I have met many couples and some men are very rigid and controlling. The man holds all the power. I would never enter this type of marriage or even date someone like this, but they do exist. I often wonder why so many women accept such an inferior position. In most relationships, there is one person who calls most of the shots. When there are two alphas, it is a pain. We are friends with a couple who can never agree and both never want to give in. It can be the simplest decision and they can never agree. They are probably the only couple that I think would be better off not married.[/quote]
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