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[quote=Anonymous]I think you’re over functioning and need to drop the rope. I’ve learned this lesson over the past 15 years of marriage, I’m so much better now and we are equal partners. For instance, my husbands sister recently came to stay for the weekend for a family celebration. I knew that the guest room needed cleaned up and prepped, but because it wasn’t my invited guest (I didn’t even know her pickup time) I just ignored it. He asked me where some bedding was and I helped him find it; not angry. When she was here I had to go in the room to look for something and noticed that DH did not clean it well or get some random totes of junk out or there. If it was a guest I invited, I would have prepared the room much better. But again, I literally thought “oh well” and just went on with my life. Not angry at all just focused on my own stuff and responsibilities and needs with the kids. Try to get to this point. It’s so much easier and healthier![/quote]
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