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Reply to "DH always gets “sick” when there’s work to do"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Call him out. Tell him you see the pattern that he is conveniently sick whenever he has an adult responsibility to handle and you're not accommodating it any longer. And he needs to cancel his mom's visit because you're not carrying the water for that. [/quote] His response was “I can’t help it if I’m sick. You act like it’s my fault.” It feels like he is using this as an ironclad get-out-of-jail-free card because if I ask a sick person to step up then I’m an inconsiderate jerk.[/quote] He is right that he can't help it if he is sick. But that means that things need to be adapted to the current situation. So, his mom doesn't come and the you hire someone to do the yard work since you can't handle his inability to do it when it needs to be done. [/quote] He seems to be well enough to do what he wants. I call shenanigans.[/quote]
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