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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How much are you complaining about your job?[/quote]

Almost daily. I know that’s bad but I’m exhausted. I’m 19 weeks pregnant and my patience to handle my job is much harder on me. I’m physically, mentally, and emotionally tired.[/quote]

It's ok to complain, but it's not ok to do it daily. He is trying to help you because you keep complaining but you are doing nothing to improve the situation.
If there is nothing you want to do to change the situation, stop complaining. Suck it up.[/quote]

He brings up the subject even when I don’t say anything. It’s become a daily thing. He asks me how my day went. I tell him. He tells me what will solve my stressful work. He again tells me how I should quit and just stay home while he’s massaging me or rubbing my feet. I want to keep my independence as long as possible,[b] but he tells me how worried about he is for me. [/b][/quote]

Because you’re acting insane.  Also, 19 weeks pregnant is the sweet spot.  The second trimester EASY for the vast majority of women.  God help your poor husband when you’re 37 weeks.

And you are definitely giving mommy martyr vibes, btw.[/quote]

19 weeks hasn’t been so sweet for me. I have a lot of aches and pains, heartburn, and still dealing with nausea and food issues.

I work in an oncology office with sick people. It’s very emotionally taxing watching sickness each day. I had a really rough last week when one of our beloved patients took a sudden turn for the worse. It’s been really hard now that I’m super emotional.

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Wait is your “complaining” mentioning that a patient worsened? If so he really sucks. [/quote]

Last week I had a hard week and cried when I got home. It was super emotional for me. He just told me to quit so I don’t have to put myself through that. No real support or empathy. [/quote]

Your story has changed at least 3 times about what type of complaining you do.  [/quote]

No. You just can’t read.[/quote]

It went from you complaining almost every day about how emotionally and physically tired and stressed you are to DH just asking you how your day was and you saying "stressful" to now it just being a one off bad week.   You come off worse and worse with every post you make.  [/quote]

This isn’t what op said at all. She said she was complaining and explained more that she complains only after she is asked how her day went. She never once said she had a one off bad week. She explained really rough week that was emotional for her and how he offered her no empathy or support. You need reading comprehension if you can’t follow this. [/quote]

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