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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s ok to want a healthier, more balanced relationship. Sometimes we do need to accept that the person we are seeking it from can’t give that. Then what do you want to do with that information? [/quote] PP it’s a tough realization but people are t goi g to change when this is enmeshed in their personalities and lives. What do we do? We limit our interactions with them. We go no contact. We do not host them in our homes. We go Gray Rock. We don’t visit or call just because. We do not buy them presents or cards. We have stultifyingly boring and banal “conversations” with them. We practice, “don’t ask, don’t tell” to match their expectations. We nod and smile to be polite. We “go to the bathroom” a lot to avoid boredom and having g to sit through the same few stories they’ve told for decades. We strategically avoid be alone with them because that’s when the inappropriate and personal questions or weird comments happen.[/quote]
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