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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, She does hoard but both rooms are both very neat. She had a bad experience with a therapist prior, so that is why she does not want to get any treatment. She has never been violent towards me but has been against property. We don't have any children. Her family would really shame her and think she was crazy so they don't know about her diagnosis.[/quote]

Do you want kids? I would not have children with someone who refuses to be treated, so if she wants them, then that's the deal, otherwise you leave. Also, consider if you really want to procreate with those genes. I'm not trying to be rude, but ask anyone who has kids with ADHD, OCD, OPP, etc.[/quote]

Be real careful where you set this bar, PP. Literally everyone has something. There are no psychologically healthy people in the US. It's not possible. There are some who can mask, and do (for years), but that often cracks. Some of the biggest problems are people who think they don't have any...

Your comment sounds an awful lot like eugenics, and is ableist on its face.[/quote]

Ok, cool. We'll I'm married with kids and I set my bar high. I also wouldn't be with someone who refused treatment. You can do what you want to do. [/quote]

Your spouse must have been REALLY desperate because their bar was clearly on the floor.[/quote]

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