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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting. When a woman starts a thread saying she is filing for divorce due to an affair she is encouraged and defended. When a man then ask those who choose to stay why they do so, suddenly the women are doing the right thing. Lol. Which is it?![/quote]

Each one is doing what is right for them. I had two friends, one of whom stayed after an affair and one of whom got divorced. I supported both of them, because each of them made the right decision for them, and frankly what I thought or what I thought I'd do (no way of actually knowing until you're in that situation) didn't matter at all. [/quote]

+1. 65% stay married after an affair.  I’ve seen women with great careers and very good looking stay. They aren’t weak.  They did what was in their heart and right for them and their families.  Frankly, some of these marriages end up much happier than ones where nobody cheated but they don’t really like each other. People make mistakes over 30, 40 years, etc. It’s more important what amends are made, what true remorse there is and what they do going forward. Nobody truly knows what’s it’s like or what they would actually do unless they had it happen in a long marriage with kids and a life intertwined.

People who judge have their own issues. I think often it’s the jilted APs starting these posts.  Why else would anyone care? [/quote]

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