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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop with the "lawyer up" advice. That is the worst advice.

If your husband wants a divorce, you try to do it amicably if you have kids. You also don't fight. No reason to. 50/50 of marital assets, 50/50 custody and call it a day.

Lawyering up takes your money, makes it hostile and chances are, you still are getting 50/50 no matter what. Don't lawyer up to pay to get an agreement you can do yourself.

Once someone says they want a divorce, they have already decided (and usually they have been thinking about it for years).

Get an agreement and that is it.[b] Go to a mediator who is also an attorney to draft it. Have your own lawyer review it. You can pay hourly for that. [/b]

DO NOT get friends and family involved. That makes it worse.

DO NOT tell kids until you have a PLAN of how they will live after a divorce and a schedule. [/quote]
How is lawyering up a bad thing when you literally suggested it? Dumba$$[/quote]

What I suggested is not “lawyering up”; you are the dumbass. [/quote]

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