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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One reason for my hesitation is right now he is a great dad, I know it may not last but right now he’s doing great with the kids, sometimes I feel like he’s a better parent than me because he plays sports with them and my kids love sports. He coaches their teams too. Another painful thing for me is that my kids do not understand why I’m upset. They might blame me for everything if I leave. -op[/quote] OP. I am going to reiterate. You need to get to a place where you make decisions and are at peace where the chips fall. Please, please please get help. I cannot stress enough, this is not something you want to mull over or just stew in alone (or with the internet). Work on you and get yourself in a space where you can decide how you want to approach the entire situation, including engaging with your husband on the issue or just getting a divorce. But you can't stew in this worrying about what could happen. You need to take care of yourself and get your own head together. Then you can make good decisions and have peace with them.[/quote]
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