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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I also fall into both of those categories. I think it's funny you think #1 can be solved so easily. What would your Heiness recommend I do? [/quote]

NP here.[b]  I haven't read more than just the first page of this thread, but I also don't understand women who find themselves in this situation.  Unless you husband changed after you had a child, then you just need to stop whining and moaning and deal with it.  If he didn't do chores before you had a baby, he's not going to suddenly become more helpful after you have a baby.  And for God's sake, if he doesn't help you with #1 and you are miserable, don't have #2.  Or if you decide to have another, SHUT THE FUCK UP about your situation.  Because you let a man who doesn't help you or value you enough to care about you ejaculate inside you.  Your fault. [/b]
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You need a dose of reality - and compassion.  Yes, people do change once they're married, once they have kids, and as they get older.  DH lost his job, fell into deep, deep depression, and starting drinking excessively.  He went from a generally loving, caring, calm, good humored person to being sullen, angry, unpredictable, and verbally abusive.  He's threatened suicide.  None of which I could have imagined when we were married eight years ago.  He's in therapy, seeking counseling, but it's day by day and it is HELL.  If you would have asked me four years ago that this would be my reality, I would have said, no way!  But here I am.  By the grace of God ....  You should stop being so smug.  You just never know. [/quote]

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