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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In our relationship it’s opposite. I’m DW and generally ready to go, dont want much foreplay. DH needs touch just generally. I have to make a point cuddle, kiss, hug ect because I do care about his needs. You should try to be physical with him more (in a non sexual way) and talk about it more[/quote]
This is also me. I am more "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" meanwhile my partner loves a lot of constant contact, cuddling together and touching almost constantly. However, I would be extremely turned off if a man just expected me to instantly spread my legs at the drop of a hat with ZERO effort put into setting the mood. I dont need elaborate foreplay whatsoever, but it sounds like OP's DH does absolutely nothing and still expects sex on demand... that's a turn off based on the entitlement alone.[/quote]

I'm a middle aged man.  Fortunately for me, wham bam thank you ma'am women are few and far between.  I can do it twice a day but I'm still slow to rise.  I'm the kind of guy who gets off by really understanding the woman he's with and touching her very attentively.  For me the wham bam women are difficult to please sometimes.

I think wham bam women have some challenges too  First, that doesn't work so well after menopause.  Second, if you ONLY are capable of O when a guy is inside you, a slightly early finish by the guy can put a damper on the whole evening...

Talking, and showing by doing, helps a lot.  I suggest that OP show him by guiding his hand.  She also can demonstrate on his body.  Some women aren't comfortable being that direct and taking the lead, but once in a while they should try.  Everyone is better off if they do they once in a while. 
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