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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you do that makes you a doormat? [/quote]

I do a lot of the house stuff and childcare. My husband had a solo weekend with our 4 month old while I went on the trip. He asked some questions because I’m with the baby more. They kept making comments on how much he was texting me. A friend of ours is going through a divorce and she told me to watch it and not end up like her doing everything. I told her I was very happy with my situation and it works for us. They started sh*t talking their husbands. They made joking comments about my husband being a man child and called me a doormat. These were women I don’t know very well. Only two of the women I’m actual friends with and they stuck up for me. [/quote]

I had a work trip when our twins were 4 months old and my husband didn't call or text to ask me anything, so honestly your husband sounds like a bit of a loser but at least he didn't forbid you from going on the trip so there's that. [/quote]

[b]Work trip is different than leisure trip.[/b] However, posters here are upset all the time about their BF or husband not checking up on them while away.

While OP sounds like a unicorn in today's world and might need better division of responsibilities once back to work, texting each other for whatever reason isn't a red flag.[/quote]

Ok, well I went on a girls' trip when they were six months old, does that help? When they were the exact age of OP's baby I was on a trip, the fact that it happened to be for work instead of fun isn't relevant to the fact that my husband didn't text me all day asking me questions he should know or be able to figure out. [/quote]

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