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He does but he will ruin his life if he pursues a more serious relationship with her. A 29 yo who doesn't know what to do with her life. Who relies on others to support her child. Who can't even support herself. That's not a life, that's freeloading.

The more you come back to post, the worse you sound. Just FYI.
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Disagree.  I do not think OP is awful at all.  I would feel the exact same way.  But he is an adult, and there is nothing OP can really do directly.  In addition to the suggestions I made above about getting another family female (preferably his generation) to talk to him, another way is to ask questions about who really looks after the child now.  Is it the GF or has she ceded all those parental responsibilities to her parents since she is living at home?  A 29 yo without education, job and living at home with parents is indeed a freeloader.
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Let me guess, you’re pro-life

If my adult DD had a child with an unsupportive or abusive partner we would welcome her home and support her and our grandchild in whatever way we could. Maybe this family values mom spending a lot of time with baby and young child and are working to make that happen. OP is so negative and judgmental and doesn’t really seem to know the GF at all. But it always comes back to this- he’s an adult and OP needs to keep her mouth shut. If she wants a good relationship with her son she should be kind to all girlfriends, like ‘em or not.[/quote]

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