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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The truth is that this is the terrible defect/defect equilibrium that emerged from the complete relaxation of all social norms of behavior.  We’ve so internalized the belief that people should do whatever they want to, to follow their bliss in all cases, with no one feeling empowered to judge the behavior of others especially in sexual matters, that this is what we have created.  Stringing along a woman for years, with no intention of marrying her, is a profoundly dishonorable act, one with significant potential consequences. But there is no one left to say that with any kind of authority, no coherent social setting that can disincentivize or punish it, and so it is left to the individual to “just set boundaries or deadlines” as if that is easy in what is often a situation of extreme emotional complexity.    The lack of structure has left many, many people entirely at sea.[/quote]

Women choose to be strung along. They can be the decision maker and discuss marriage or ending the relationship. Women are not brainless passive voids, existing only at the will of men. They are able to competently and capably assess their lives and make decisions and choices that work for them. They can speak up and ask questions and voice opinions and use their autonomy to be an active participant in their own lives. [/quote]

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