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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As the mom of a DD it would concern me. However, my nephew is 21 and dating a 17yo. They met through work and both families have met and all seems to be well. He is a nice kid, respectful and she is his first girlfriend. So I don’t know, I’d try snd base it on personality and whether he seek me to care for her, and not just focus on age. [/quote] I’m sure your nephew is great, but he’s still a 21-year-old male. My DH and I started dating at 18 and we were both committed to waiting until marriage for sex but even with THAT mutual conviction it was difficult not to cross boundaries. And he admitted later that it’s all his young male brain thought about. We got married at 22. But that was 25 years ago where it was more common for young couples not to jump into bed together after four dates. I can’t imagine a 21-year-old with a girlfriend for the first time will be completely fine with abstaining much longer than a few months.[/quote]
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