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[quote=Anonymous]In college, my roommate was cheating on her longterm boyfriend with a new guy. She would have sex in her room with the boyfriend, he’d leave, and later the other guy would come over. I said I couldn’t deal with the duplicity that was expected of me - it was my house too, how could I pretend to act normal around the boyfriend? The new guy knew about the boyfriend, but the boyfriend didn’t know about the new guy. She thought I was judgmental and brought in a lot of other traits about me which was hurtful. We got in a big fight and didn’t talk for 3 months as roommates. She was not invited to our other roommate’s wedding years later, despite them being friends. I think it was due to the past cheating stuff.

She ended up dating and marrying the new guy and they have been together since college. She told me I was right all along.

Anyway, my advice would be to be straight with your friend if she is open to feedback, but otherwise just mind your own business and stay out of it for your own mental health.[/quote]

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