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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lord. How'd you find out? Your kids know? How old are they?[/quote]

teens.  I am not going to say how, and TBH I do not have proof of sexual contact, just behavior and other friends hinting on it as if they suspected. It's another reason I am not confronting the friend as I cannot accuse anyone of cheating if I do not have undeniable proof.  But the "lover" did/said something that revealed things to me and in a manner traumatic to me, and it's why I didn't want to be around this person.[/quote]

You sound like you love the drama, honestly. [/quote]

The opposite: I hate drama.  I was dragged into it and it was dramatic, I didn't ask for it.  I would rather be oblivious and keep on living my life as I do not have proof of actual cheating, just people insinuating.  There were things done and said that made me believe rumors might be true, but I have no proof.  
All I want if I could is for things go back to normal[/quote]

Nope, because if you wanted to you would just get over it. But instead you're waxing poetic and shared pictures of you and this friend. This isn't about you. Back off of it. I'm not a cheater and I think cheating is awful but it has nothing to do with you. She's not cheating on you. Either ride your high horse off into the distance or realize this is none of your business. If you want to ghost her "lover" (who talks like that?!) then go ahead. I don't like everyone I know and it's pretty easy to just...not spend time with them. You're enjoying the hand wringing and the drama but you won't admit it. [/quote]

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