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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Moms smacking their kids hard (like my mom).

[b]Loud public shaming/berating by parents (like my mom)[/b].

[b]Kids allowed to be withdrawn/antisocial in public and at family events[/b], or families eating in total silence at great speed at restaurants. That’s a super personal hangup that’s really specific to how my husband was raised and how it impacts our family life. When I see a little kid sullenly reading a book and slumped in their own corner at a nice restaurant, I don’t think, yay, they’re reading. My brain goes straight to: good luck to the woman who married that kid and into that family. [/quote]

So do you want the family to berate them for being withdrawn in public, or do you want them to be left alone. Getting annoyed that a shy kid is reading a book is…interesting.[/quote]

NP - there's no reason for a kid to be shy with their own family. If they can't sit in a restaurant and interact with their family members they should be in intensive therapy because something is seriously wrong. It's not appropriate to check out mentally and read a book during a family meal. And I say that as a voracious reader who is an introvert (but not shy). [/quote]

Oh wow, you have no idea how some kids work.  My ADHD/Autistic kid will absolutely focus on his book at a restaurant, because the restaurant is overwhelming/overstimulating.  That's fine, and he doesn't need "intensive therapy".  When I was a kid, my brother and I (who are not neurodivergent) always took books to restaurants, and didn't necessarily interact with our parents.  Our parents were fine with this.  [/quote]

Okay, but we weren't talking about special needs kids. [b]We were just talking about bratty kids who refuse to engage[/b] because ... maybe they wanted a different restaurant, or they're not allowed to order the food they want, or they wanted to be allowed to use their tablet, etc. You and your brother shouldn't have been allowed books at the table. Your son, fine. [/quote]
You think you can tell by looking whether a kid has SN? Wow.[/quote]

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