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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We sleep separately and I find it hard.  I miss falling asleep in DH arms or waking up to some morning adult time. [/quote]

This feels like it was written by a husband
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I did not write the above. I"m a man.  
I will only date women who could write something like that. After almost a decade together, my ex wife asked me to sleep in the guest room.  Her request coincided with a big reduction in her sex drive.  Yes, I snore, but most women I've met since divorce can deal with it.  I use an anti-snoring mouth guard, which is good enough for most women but not my ex wife.  Separate bedrooms may have destroyed my marriage. Yes, she needed to sleep, but she stopped prioritizing us as a couple and the change in sleeping arrangements was part of a big change in her priorities.  [/quote]
What is your weight/body fat percentage?[/quote]

I don't know.  [b]I'm definitely somewhat overweight.  Some women don't find me attractive but quite a few do. I basically look like a former football player.[/b] Losing weight reduces snoring a little.  The mouth guard reduced it more.  [/quote]

This sounds like a lot of man mumbo jumbo justification for "I'm extremely fat". A lot of these football players would be obese by any standard, and they need to be in order to be able to run into other 300 lb men on the football field. But it has about the same sexual appeal (to women) as a sumo wrestler. No one finds that attractive, and if it's literally causing you to snore and have issues breathing... it's bad. [/quote]

Maybe that's how my ex felt about me.

Now she's with a guy who's thinner than I am but ten years older than I am and dumb.  I don't know about his snoring. I'm with a woman who's ten years younger than she is and smart, and also better looking. She also sleeps through my snoring.

That's not the ending I wanted when I married my ex.  [/quote]

Well maybe you should haven’t been such a selfish d*ck when she told you her sleep was being impacted. Sleep is literally one of the most important things for mental and physical health. [/quote]

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