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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with everyone else that you need to allow the cat since you promised your husband. I do think it's OK for you to outline some conditions: your husband cleans the liter box 100% of the time, does all the vet appointments, buys the food and feeds the cat/makes sure it has water, and vacuums once a week (assuming the cat sheds).

I really wanted a dog. My husband likes dogs, but didn't want one because of the extra work. I agreed to be 100% responsible for the dog abd my husbandagreed to get one. Unlike OP, my husband loves dogs, he just didn't want the work. I probably do 99% of the dog care. On rare occasions when I have a conflict, my husband will take the dog for a walk but the dog is my responsibility and for me, that was a compromise I was willing to make. Bonus is that I'm my dog's favorite person![/quote]

OK but he had this cat before he met his now-wife which means he was long caring for this cat's needs. It doesn't sound like OP took on any of that so what is it, exactly, she anticipates being the "responsibility" that she needs to take on when the cat comes home? No, OP is being a bit** and bait and switched this man over his beloved pet. What a piece of trash. [/quote]

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