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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re not being unreasonable at all. A pet IS a lot of commitment. Some people get very kooky about animals (the people in this thread, for example) but at the end of the day, your DH chose a human to forsake all others for when he married you. Your feelings are more important. And like you say, the cat is safe in a loving home where you can visit already. It will be fine. Just tell him how you feel and go from there. A good husband will try to make you happy in this respect.[/quote] Are you OP? Otherwise, this is not an opinion most people have. [/quote] Does the opinion of most people matter between one husband and one wife? Which would make a happier household—100 rules around DH servicing the cat strictly by himself, and 101 other ways for resentment to potentially arise when those rules aren’t met. Or simply not rehoming the cat? Do you not see how you’re putting some imagined duty towards the cat above peace inside the home? [/quote]
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