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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you for all of the responses, they've been very helpful. To answer some questions: I'm almost 6 months, so probably too late for an abortion. He *very* much wanted/wants the baby even though it was a surprise.

I spoke with him about it and told him it was unacceptable how he reacted and how unhappy I've been feeling, that it feels like I'm walking on eggshells and it's unsustainable. He cried at the idea of me leaving and apologized that he overreacted, and said that he would be better.

Then this morning he got extremely upset because it’s been maybe 4-5 days since we had sex, and he was shouting about it and saying how he couldnt live this way. So yes, it’s a theme that he gets very upset and emotional and kind of unable to self regulate, which I really hate.  I’m not sure what to do because I do feel very stuck with my current physical condition. I love that he's emotional and vulnerable at times but then other times I feel completely stretched to my limit and almost traumatized because it feels like it's *always* something [/quote]

So he was "better" for 12 hours at most? And upset to the point of yelling at you?!  Honey, being a single mom will be better than being with this loser. I guarantee he is going to freak out and yell about something at your delivery. You have 3-4 months to plan - use that time to get your ducks in a row regarding being a single mom. He will not want 50/50 custody. This is the type of guy who will claim he wants it but will yell at you to "make" the baby stop crying. Dump this loser.[/quote]

listen to this poster, OP. 100% right.[/quote]

X 10000000 RUN for the hills. Geez, you haven't even had any of the real stressors yet (present when baby comes). You don't need that. [/quote]

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