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[quote=Anonymous]OP, its glaringly obvious to everyone that he will not be a good partner or parent, and bringing a child into this mess will simply increase the stressors--he already can't handle anything. I know its wishful thinking that he will come around when the baby is born, but I think there is a 99% chance things will get worse and you do not want to raise a child in that kind of household.

The question now is what will YOU do. Your choices are to terminate the pregnancy--obvious not a choice to be taken lightly, but you have to make it now. I would consider this if you are not in a position to be a single parent for whatever reason.

Second choice is to have the baby, try to coparent if possible, and plan for being primary parent. This ties you to this person for many, many years and will limit your choices/future, but many people have raised kids on their own and do just fine. I would do this if I had family support, or were over 30, or felt pretty stable/secure in my life.

Third choice, which is adoption, will be very difficult if he is not on board.

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