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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was finished with having 3 kids by 27 (had them at 19, 24, 27). Obviously the one at 19 was an "oopsie", but it's worked out perfectly and can't imagine it any other way at this point. Owned a 5 bedroom house in a nice suburb at 26 and was able to be a SAHM for several years. I have a master's degree, a great job with flexibility, kids active in multiple travel sports that cost me in excess of $50k/yr.

So that comment about people being in a lower class when they have kids young is quite laughable. You're probably jealous you didn't have the means to be able to afford a child before 40.

Now my friends I went to high school/college with are dealing with diapers and sleepless nights at 40+, and then gonna be dealing with back to school nights and playdates in their 40's-50s, and paying off college in their 60's. F that. I can do whatever I want because my kids are old enough to take care of themselves now and I'm only 40. That's another 40ish years of life I have to enjoy with my kids and do what I please, when I please.

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Oh, also I'm not gonna be 70 before I get a grandchild so I'll also be able to enjoy my grandkids when I'm young. I am encouraging my kids to have them sooner rather than later as well, and I'll be able to help them with whatever they need to be able to do that.[/quote]

Well you seem super insecure and insufferable so even if your kids give you grandkids when you're in your 50s, odds are good they'll be steering clear of judgy Grandma who just wants to tell them all what a genius she was for getting knocked up at 19. But enjoy.[/quote]

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