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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, and I'm disappointed this deteriorated so quickly. Can we set aside the gender identity issue for now?

New question: do you have children (assuming you do since you're on this site)? Have you discussed your bi identity with them? How "out" are you among friends?

Me: yes I have kids (young tweens) and no, I haven't talked with them about it yet. I do plan to, though I wonder how DH will feel about it. He's generally very open, but I know it will make him feel weird. Deep down (or not so much), I think he likes to pretend my previous life as a lesbian is a thing of the distant past). Yes, I am out to friends, but I literally know NO ONE else who is out and bi. Our community (NW DC) is very very cis and hetero, with a handful of queer families. [/quote]
Bi woman married to a man here. I haven’t discussed my sexuality with my kids nor do I plan to unless one is LGB. My DH, too, isn’t quite comfortable with my sexuality. I’m out to old friends, but not to anyone I’ve met since marriage.[/quote]

You chose to marry someone, but admit he isn't comfortable with that. I assume he only wants a one on one relationship then? Sorry it's confusing, but you should have decided all that before you married him. And why do you have to be "out"? It sounds like you and your DH have some serious problems. [/quote]

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