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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it’s perfectly fine. Once you are dead nothing matters to you and it’s up to the living to deal with your passing however is best for them. [/quote] I think you are selfish. If someone took the time to plan a will and a burial, those desires should be honored.[/quote] Obviously if it’s no problem for me to carry out their plan then I am going to do it. But it seems to me the very premise is that for some reason I don’t want to do whatever their plan is — whether it’s hiking a 10,000 ft mountain to spread their ashes, or holding a Catholic mass, or forgoing any religious service at all. And if those things would be difficult for me it seems a little crazy to me that if there is a conflict between the person who is alive but in mourning and the person who is dead and gone the latter’s wishes should have more weight. I mean they are dead and gone— why on earth would it matter to them?[/quote]
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