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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We/I talked to ds at about 14 about consent and using protection every single time.  It was more of a refresher talk because he had started dating.  We were on a road trip, so a good time to chat.  I told him that if she tenses up, hesitates, or pushes him away at ALL, it was time to stop.  I also told him that it was just as ok for him to stop, and she needed to respect that.

We also talked about never trusting the pill (I was on birth control both times I got pregnant,  and reacting to pregnancy.  I also brought up not staying in a bad relationship because he liked the sex.[/quote]

Yikes. Your 14 yo is having sex? [/quote]

That was 9 years ago.  He wasn't having sex yet but he was dating.  14/15 is pretty common for first experiences.  My husband teaches 9th grade... our heads were not buried in the sand.

Fast forward to today.  At 23 1/2 ds has had the same GF for 7 years.  They are talking about marriage, buying a house etc.[/quote]

Dating for 7 years? So, failure to launch. Sounds like you weren't as successful as this as you thought.[/quote]

What are you talking about?  They are 23 and 24.  He graduated from college in June, she still has two more years because she's paying her own way.  He is working in his chosen field, and saving for a ring and a down-payment on a house.

Failure to lauch?  Hardly.[/quote]

Dating for 7 years mean someone's not committed. Cool for teenagers, not cool for adults. [/quote]

STFU already. They are barely not kids anymore. No one should be getting married until they finish college. [/quote]

Yeah, well, they should be finished with college at that age, too. But whatever. Thankfully not my problem![/quote]

So shut up about it.  [/quote]

I'm just shocked people think it's ok to shack up for 7 years! Blows my mind. [/quote]

DP.  If they’re 23 and 24 they’ve only been “shacked up” for 1-2 years.  You’re really reaching with this one; you should give up already.

(And I say this as someone who dated my now spouse for 6 years before getting married at 24)[/quote]

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