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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband. There have been times he hasn't cleared plans with me, which has meant either me re-arranging my unimportant plans at the last minute, or me forcing him to call his mother back because we did actually have prior commitments. So generally, he loops me in during the planning stage, so I can check my calendar.[/quote]

But he doesn't have to clear plans with you.  He is in charge of scheduling with his family and he scheduled it.  You have to defer to his plans.  If you don't defer to his plans that means you ARE in charge of scheduling events which include his family.  So what is the point of him being involved at all?  There is no point it is counter productive.  You read something in a college feminist book or Ms. Magazine and just swallowed it with non critical thinking because actually thinking about things is not allowed.[/quote]

Are you stupid? When I make plans with my parents, I double-check with my husband too, in case he wanted to do something at that time. It goes both ways. This has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with household operations.

Go to bed. Maybe your IQ will increase into the double digits for a short while.
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If it has to do with household operations and not bankrupt feminist politics, one person alone would be in charge of scheduling.  Then you won't have conflicts.  Your abusive insults prove the point.  You're a nasty piece.of.work.[/quote]

We have a shared calendar. Both are responsible for inputting information. We check the calendar before contacting our families.[/quote]

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