Reply to How normal is it to yell at your kids?

Forum Index » General Parenting Discussion

Reply to "How normal is it to yell at your kids?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We yell most days. Personally I think the conflict adverse houses and kids are a lot more anxious.[/quote]

Genuine question for people who describe houses where people don't yell as "conflict adverse." Do you yell in the rest of your life? I don't yell at my spouse or my coworkers or my friends, and they don't yell at me. We have conflicts; we just talk normally through them. It seems odd to me to expect yelling.[/quote]

I don't describe no yelling as conflict averse but I think that my four year old's ability to talk through the conflict of wanting to keep playing indefinitely instead of putting on his shoes to go to pre-K is probably pretty limited compared to your spouse and coworkers.

Most of my yelling happens when my kids need to stop doing something fun and do something necessary (wash hands for dinner, put on shoes, brush teeth, etc). It's either repetition more loudly or threats (aka consequences). I wish they'd logically understand that oral health is more important than squeezing out 5 more minutes of Legos, but alas. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics