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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Didn’t feel an ounce of guilt. He was having a midlife crisis and spiraling in his marriage. I was not the cause of the mid life crisis - and if it hadn’t been me having a passionate brief fling with him it’d have been someone else.  He and his actions hurt his marriage.  If he’d instead drained their bank account and bought a sports car would you blame the car?  This is another weird example of expecting women to act a certain way not for their own wellbeing or self interest but because men are apparently incapable of controlling themselves so women need to do it for them. Nope - your husband made a choice and it’s on him. My responding to the hot guy who flirted with me at a conference resulting in the fun fling I needed at that time in my life is a choice for me, not sorry I didn’t try to help you control your husband when he was clearly actively pursing cheating on you.

And is he a bit gross? Sure.  Would I date or marry him? Absolutely not. But I wasn’t looking for love - I’m no fool marrying an obvious cheater then expecting him to change [/quote]
Nice try to justify your having the morals of an alley cat.[/quote]

Right? PP you are not a car. You are human and you have a brain. You are supposed to use your better judgment, and your actions should consider people other than yourself.

Aiding and abetting is a crime, even if you didn't plan the crime or chose the target.[/quote]

A crime? C’mon. Affairs are just one form of betrayal in partnership, but they are not crimes. [/quote]

The are crimes in religion and overseas in many countries.[/quote]

And then they are not a big deal in many others. What’s your point?

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